Bullying is a complex social issue and understanding it clearly is an important step in addressing it effectively. Bullying is defined as the ongoing and deliberate misuse of power in relationships through repeated verbal, physical, and/or social behaviour intended to cause physical, social, or psychological harm. It can involve an individual or a group misusing their power, whether real or perceived, over one or more people who feel unable to stop it from happening.
Equally important is knowing what bullying is not. A single unkind comment, one-off rough play, a moment of rudeness, or a disagreement is not bullying. These behaviours are certainly unhelpful and should be addressed, but to be classified as bullying, all three of the following must be present: repeated actions or threats, a power imbalance and an intention to cause harm.
This week, our students have participated in activities and conversations to help them understand what bullying is—and isn’t—how it impacts individuals and communities, and what each of us can do to make a difference. The theme has been: Be bold. Be kind. Speak up. We encourage students to be courageous in supporting their peers, whether that’s telling an adult, asking someone to stop harmful behaviour, or simply seeking out and showing kindness to someone who has been targeted. Small acts of courage can make a big difference.
We know it is deeply concerning when your child says they are being bullied. Here are some helpful ways to respond:
While it is natural for parents to want strong consequences for those who bully, research shows that the most effective long-term solutions come through education, building empathy, and restorative practices that repair relationships.
At Avondale School, we are committed to helping students grow in kindness, courage, and community-mindedness. Most importantly, we want them to learn to be Christlike in their behaviour—living out the words of Ephesians 4:32:
“Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.”
Mrs Deb Cooper
Principal
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